I realize that most people won't understand why this is such a big deal. But just know that it truly is! My little Boy, Jasper, he came to me when He was 2. Before that he moved around a lot and was used as a breeding cat. Then he had a bit of trouble finding a forever home. He can be a bit aggressive (understatement of the century) when it comes to other cats, but he is a fantastic people cat.
When he first moved in he was very solitary. He liked to be petted but only when he wanted it and only one hand at a time! Now today he's on the couch and cuddling!! Oh yeah! Cat whisper here!!!